Communication into ratiocinative scrutiny.

In this generation communication had lost its iginality. Its now like we are being forced to talk to each other. We see discussing what is pertinent to us as a burden. Even the party that is suppose to be listening is 100% distracted.

Let’s take a case of a female child and her mother as a case study. The child complains every time that she feel pain in her private part, only for the mother to say you play too much!!! Spanking her head not to play rough play again. Are you for real?

Husband and Wife, Honey you have to see what happen to me at work today (wife speaking) then the husband respond, something happen at work and you are still fresh like this, you have to see me at work today.

Between friends Guy I never chop since morning ooo respond from friend my guy even me self I never smell smoke this whole 2020. Do you if he has food to eat but no appetite? Do you know if he is sick or he has been purging? Do you know if he lost a relative? Do you know if he failed in his examination?

Most of the time the people that will help us succeed are those that we don’t k ow from Adam. No doubt about it that the world we live in today is very cruel, but at the same time, someone you call your friend, someone you call your husband or wife, someone you call your child is always moody, always with a sad fa e and you don’t even bother to talk to him or her? When he or she calls for attention that’s when you remember your own trouble 

I have heard people saying I drink to forget about my problems, I smoke so that I won’t remember by worries and I indulge in this immoral behavior just to calm my nerves and to dance away my sorrows.

When there’s nobody to talk to depression sets in, and when its does low self esteem follows. According to research, over 50% of death rate is caused by depression. According to WHO over 264 million people is affected. 

We pray to God when we are in difficult moments he answers our prayer. Will he come down from heaven to give us what we need? No!!! He will send somebody to us. We are being created to serve God. How can we serve God if we don’t help our neighbors.

The Golden rule is love your neighbor as yourself, let’s reach out to each other. So many people are dying in silence. Let’s listen to understand and not to respond. Communication has to be horizontal and vertical!!! Not one sided and there is need for feedback which is response from the listening party, in the absence of this there is no communication.